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The Saturday before last, I went up to Scarborough with my father to see my nana, who's had a stroke. She's in hospital and probably won't come out; even if she recovers from the stroke, she has cancer. It was hard to see her lying in the bed like that, almost completely helpless and not really aware of her surroundings because she's always been such an independant person. Still, I managed to get through the hospital visits. The highlight of my visit was on Monday, when I went with Dad to York, where he was on a course.

York is one of the oldest cities in England, and it's beautiful. Even my mother, who doesn't like anything north of Watford, likes York. The Vikings were the first people to make a big settlement there (they called it 'Jorvik', and people in Yorkshire still say 'York' with a small 'i' sound at the end). This means that a lot of streets in the centre are called 'gate', because that was the Viking word for street, e.g. Stonegate, Queensgate. The main shopping streets are Stonegate, Market Street and the Shambles, which is the oldest street running straight to the Minster (another Viking word).

Dad dropped me off at one of the Park & Ride sites just outside the city and I was left to explore it for the day. After browsing the shops, I decided to go to the Treasurer's House (which is one of the most famous haunted houses in Britain, because a plumber saw a whole legion of Roman soldiers marching through the cellar). The house was beautiful but what I liked most of all was the silence inside it and the slow ticking of the clocks. It was a peaceful sound. The only problem with the National Trust is that you don't get a student discount. After that, I went to the Richard III museum, which is in one of the towers on the city wall. Richard III was very fond of York when he was alive and York returned the compliment. The museum was quite good, with lots of displays about whether Richard had killed the Princes in the Tower or not. At the end, there were two books, 'Guilty' and 'Innocent', and you could sign one depending on whether you thought he was guilty or not. I also discovered a vegetarian Hispanic restaurant, right in the centre of the city. It's not that the Spanish don't eat vegetables, they just love their meat. I didn't think I'd ever see one and there it was. (For anyone who's going to York, it's called El Piano and it's on Grape Lane.) They even had a copy of 'El Pais' there, so I was able to browse. (It was Friday's copy but that wasn't too bad.) After lunch, I found a shop filled with jams, chutneys, preserves and mustards. My mother adores condiments, so I quickly phoned her up and gave her a choice of either Bramble Preserve or Garlic Mustard. This is a hard choice for Mum, as she loves blackberries and also loves garlic, but in the end she chose the mustard. Then I wandered around trying to find Books Etc., which I'd visited earlier in the day and actually possessed all the paperbacks I've been wanting (but I didn't buy any). I didn't find it, but I did find a wonderful ice cream shop with loads of interesting flavours (I chose mint choc chip and lemon sorbet). Then I bought some chocolate from Woolworths and wandered around the Manor Gardens before getting the bus back to the Park & Ride site, just in time to avoid a massive downpour. York's Park & Ride is wonderful - buses every ten minutes, £2.00 for an adult return, outside the city limits. Salisbury City Council should come and have a look, then they'd see proper P&R planning.

Yesterday I went back to Guildford for another interview with a translating company. They have a Project Manager vacancy and if I get it, I will go straight into a proper job after uni. The interview went well, we spent the first half talking about poetry and being on the course is a bonus. Unfortunately, I got an e-mail today saying that I wouldn't have a second interview. What do I have to do to get a job? Then I had trouble with my library books.

I went back to my house in Hazel Farm to have lunch and basically sort out the stuff I would have sorted out two Sundays ago, if I'd had my keys. I threw away all the brown vegetables, washed up everything and got the things I needed to take back to Salisbury, including my library books, which I'd drop off at Guildford Library. Just as I sat down on the bus, I remembered that I'd forgotten my father's birthday present, which had been one of the main reasons I'd gone to the house. I rushed off the bus, muttering to myself, then saw a gorgeous ginger-and-white cat. It had to be male, he looked like a real tiger. He had a really interesting undulating purr that went up and down the scales. However, while stroking him, I realised that I was only carrying one plastic bag and realised the other one must still be on the bus. Cue me kicking myself and muttering abuse. I went back to the house, got the present and then got the next bus down to the bus station. The bag was not in the Lost & Found. I was directed to the station inspector. She rushed off, only to inform me that the bus had just left on the second half of its journey and would not be back for fifty minutes. What was really frustrating was that the bus I'd gotten had been going really slowly. If he'd just gone a little quicker, I would have got my books back right then and there. I plodded off to Waterstones, flicked through a few books, then went back 50 minutes later. The inspector was on the phone, trying to sort out a timetable mix up. When she finished that, we went looking for the bus... which had just left AGAIN. The inspector was not daunted and said we should try the Lost & Found again: my plastic bag was there! I thanked everyone profusely and rushed off to the library, stopping to draw out some money because I didn't know how much I had to pay for my overdue book (which was why I was so worried about the books in the first place!). It turned out I had to pay 4p. Only four pence after all that worry.

Then I discovered when I got to the train station that there had been a fatality at Escham, which meant everything was in chaos. The train which would have got me to Salisbury for 5.45 would now arrive at 6.25, which is after the last bus leaves. I phoned Mum, wondering what to do and she said she'd wait for me. Finally, I arrived in Salisbury and came home. Then I went to the cinema with my friend Lydia to see Ice Age 2: The Meltdown. Which is utterly hilarious. I'm wondering why they chose Queen Latifah to do Ellie, though. She didn't really get to cut loose and I would have thought that was the whole point of hiring her as a voice actor. Oh well, what do I know? See the film!

And that's all for now.

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I'm sorry about your grandmother. David's grandmother was in hospice the last week before she passed, and so was Uncle Jack. It's so hard to see those we love in that way.

I'm still working up the courage to see my grandfather--knowing that I'm just a stranger to him.

~hugs~

Thanks, Krysia. It means a lot to me. *hugs back*

I'm sorry about your grandmother. That can't have been easy for you. I love the description of your day and the lost bag and the mustard, etc . . . I've heard good things about IceAge2. I'm glad you had a good laugh after all the drama.

No, but I managed. I was really happy to see my friend and just relax after everything that had happened. It was necessary. Nice to see you in my LJ, Mary. =)

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*hugs* I'm so sorry about your Grandmother.

I'm sorry about your grandmother. *hugs*

And job-hunting is tough! There seems to be a big element of luck in it - you never know when you're applying somewhere where they've already decided to promote someone who already works there to fill the position, or whatever. The good thing is, I'm sure that getting turned down doesn't reflect on you or your skills. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Thanks, Kit. I'm trying to avoid thinking there's something wrong with me, but it's difficult. I keep getting interviews and then NOT getting the job. It makes me wonder what I'm doing or not doing.

I'm glad that you're finding a way to be happy amidst all the junk you have to deal with right now.
*hug*

Thanks, Cat. It was a good thing I had that night out with her.

I'm sorry about your grandmother *hugs*

Enjoyed reading about your day in York - I'm hazarding a guess you signed the *innocent* book :)

More *huggles* for trials of leaving things behind and transport nightmares - sounds like you coped really well.

Yes, I did. My mum is a definite Richard III fan (she loves York, too, but hates Yorkshire) and has made sure we know the "facts".

I don't know if I coped that well with it, I felt like going into hysterics half the time, but I managed. Thank goodness it wasn't a week before, that's all I can say.

I'm glad you got to see your Grandma, but it can't have been easy. I sincerely hope she remains comfortable.

Sounds like you had a wonderful time in York, I must make the effort to visit at some point but I am with your mother in prefering to stay south of Watford.

Job hunting can be a very frustrating process, but hang in there and I'm sure you'll find your niche. You know my fingers are crossed for you.

How lucky that you had such a pleasant evening ahead of you after all those problems!

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