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The Sea of Stars

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Grief - holo_daxy
I meant to update my LJ last weekend but my granddad was taken into hospital and we spent the week waiting for news. My parents just phoned me and told me that he died peacefully this morning. It's good, because he wasn't really him any more; Alzheimer's had gradually eroded the man I grew up with and he was practically housebound, which for a man who'd always enjoyed his sport was akin to torture. So I'm glad he's not suffering any more, but I'm still sad. Although he was a selfish man, he was always loving and kind towards me and until my cousin Jack was born, I was his favourite grandchild. My dad's father died when he was 11 so my granddad was the only grandfather I had growing up (but I had 3 grandmothers - my mother's mother, my mother's stepmother and my father's mother) and now I won't have that again (unless I find a partner with a living grandparent).

I'm postponing my life update for a little while but I will be back.

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Oh honey, I'm so sorry for your loss. Which has been double. First you lost him to Alzheimer, and now you lost him physically. nod grandpa to hug any longer. It's a sad part of growing up, having our grandparents leave us. But at least you had him for a long time. *big, big hugs*

It wasn't as bad as it could have been, because he and my step-grandmother moved away a few years ago to the Isle of Wight, so I only saw them a couple of times a year after that and missed the real degeneration. But you're right, he was around for a really long time and I couldn't have got through secondary school without him. *hug*

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